Sexual causes of passion Descending

Worries and fatigue after the new born babies often make a couple make passionate couple subside, especially in women. When the trauma is managed properly, the sex life can be re-run as well. Decrease of sexual passion caused by psychological or physical trauma. Reviewed in terms of the physical, women are experiencing drastic changes in the body. Normal birth and the caesar and can cause trauma to the woman. Take an example, physical trauma can occur at birth. Pengguntingan due to pain in the vagina (episiotomi) to smooth the road to avoid the occurrence of birth perobekan the weight. Of course, this action takes time for healing. While psychological trauma (psychosis) occur in wanitausaimelahirkanyangbelum ready to understand and manage all affairs of children. From start treating a child, caring for the breasts are ready to remove the milk, the milk is the right to change the diaper business. As a result, mothers feel tired, tired, and cause a spark of decline and are reluctant to be sexual. Mother of the new birth often feel anxious with the body no longer interesting. Wife of fear can not produce enough breastmilk that the baby needs to feel anxious and with other health conditions. Worries that sometimes does not have experienced it and this is a barrier to make the occurrence of appetite. Hormone imbalance dituding often also causes the decrease of sexual desire. This hormone imbalance can cause emotional changes that are not well balanced. The young mother is easier to feel annoyed, lazy, want to rage. Despite so, Consultant Adolescent Sex and the Marriage of Curhat Clinic, Semarang dr Iwan Setiawan stressed, hormonal imbalance affect only indirectly. Times after childbed, hormonal back working normally. Each woman is different kesiapannya. But medically, once again there is no bleeding, the mother may simply have been ready to have sex after the childbed period that usually lasts for 30-40 days. Still considered reasonable if the reluctance to deal with partner agencies, between one to three months after giving birth. "If you pass the limit means there is something wrong and need proper handling. It is, Communicate immediately with the husband," said Iwan. Naturally, after passing through the childbed conditions maternal reproductive organs are normal again. Therefore, the position of sex as anything can be done already. Even if there is still pain complaints, due process of the return function of the body has not been held as perfect vagina damping function that has not been returned as they are. However, this complaint may also be muscle cramps, infections, or wounds that are still in the process of healing. "To menyiasati this, pasutri can make women's position on the top. If the wife is not comfortable and are still afraid to avoid direct and even do not cause prolonged trauma," said alumnus Faculty of Medicine, Diponegoro University.