The first and general mistake is formulated this way: “They need only one thing”. This is just an old legend

The first and general mistake is formulated this way: “They need only one thing”. This is just an old legend. Hard workers get tired so much on their work now, that they are just dreaming of falling asleep as soon as they can, and businessmen visit sexperts in spare time, so that they could at least want something.

We hear and hear about divorces everythwre. This is a sure sign that the most respected institution is indeed in great danger. We do not already pay attention to the small details that support a marriage. You do not even remember his birthday or even the first time you met. Ability to listen is much more important than talking, remember this and try to save your marriage. Everyone has desire to be heard, especially men, as this makes them feeling loved and cared for. When he is talking try to look at him straight in the eyes and keep on nodding. This is a sure way of showing him that you are attentive and he will be encouraged to keep on talking.

Try to avoid complaining. If there is anything that can make your man to miss coming home are your endless complaints just about anything he does. Save your marriage by avoiding constant complaints. Men feel inferior and he may start feeling that he is not the right one for you. You should learn that no one is perfect and accept your partner just the way he is. When you feel your partner has wronged you in any way do not start yelling and throwing plates at him but create the right atmosphere around the table then put your point across in a loving and caring manner. This will make your partner feel respected.

Avoid making love right after a quarrel because this may make your partner feel that you are blackmailing him and he may not open up to you making the sexual ordeal boring to both of you. Try going for a walk instead just to relax his mind. During the walk keep thinking positively about your partner because he is the man you have decided to spend the rest of your life with. Remind him about your first date, how loving and caring he was at that time, and what attracted you to him. This will make him save your marriage by seriously starting to think of where and when he started going wrong and what he can do to bring the fire back to your marriage.

Little niceties like “i love you” at the end of a telephone conversation can help save your marriage because your partner will know he is still the man you love and care about. You should not have very high expectations about your man. This can push him off limits as he keeps on trying to prove himself to you. Remember the world outside is very cruel so when a man comes back home he needs a bit of tenderness, encouragement and love to make him strong enough to face another day. By choosing him to be your life partner simply means you had accepted him the way he is, never try to compare him with another man. Remember that you can never change a man be contented with what you have by making each day worth living. Make him feel appreciated.

A modern woman’s life is a continuous train of quickly replaced events, many of which become a stress reason. Traffic jams, a child’s not always good marks at school, unpleasant meetings, a time trouble on work, and even long-awaited advancement, which, apparently, is exclusively joyful event - all this can lead to stress. And what is stress? It is heightened irritability, nervousness, tears on trifles, headaches, feeling sick, sleeplessness … And it is far not a full list of what a person can get together with stress.

It is obvious that for inhabitant of a city stress concerns a category of inadmissible. Which modern woman can successfully consult with all affairs after sleepless nights, suffering headache attacks, loosened nervous system? And if she can, how long? It is not necessary to execute such experiments, after all they will not pass completely for your health. Instead, it is better to master methods, with which help it is possible to manage stress and get rid of it. And then in any situation, even the most unpredictable, you will appear the mistress of position, instead of the hostage of stress.

How to avoid

In life there are situations when it is necessary to control yourself here and now, and not to allow stress seizing you. In such cases it is possible to take advantage of simple, but very effective ways.

Way 1. It is necessary to execute simple exercise. For this purpose you should not rise from a chair at all, just extend your hands forward, and then weaken them sharply. Hands thus will fall to knees. If it is necessary, this exercise can be repeated in fifteen minutes. The matter is that during stressful situations people can strain and lift shoulders, and it makes breath shallow. Such breath provokes emission of stress hormones, and raising of hands forces a person inhaling more deeply, therefore enough oxygen and level of stressful hormones comes to blood. Also it is possible to make thirty deep breaths. It is necessary to inhale and exhale through a nose, and at a breath to try filling with oxygen a stomach area, instead of lungs.

Way 2. It is necessary to think up some reasons for pleasure at present. For example, it is possible to be glad to good weather, think that soon a lunch break comes, recollect that in the evening you will go to a night club or view your favourite telecast … Start to reflect and at once you will understand that there are many reasons for pleasure. Surprisingly, but your condition becomes quieter and mood improves.

Way 3. Go for a short walk. It is a question of walk, slow, quiet. It is known that during a nervous tension one’s movements become sharp, gusty, fast. Therefore slow walk will allow calming your nervous system. Atmosphere change will also work favorably. And for bigger efficiency during a walk it is possible to eat an ice-cream or chocolate.

How to get rid

If stress has already seized you all the same, there are some ways with which help it is possible to get rid of its influence.

1. Do not keep it in yourself, share, express yourself. Every woman resorted to this way, and possibly, not once. After all you still shared your experiences and sensations with a girlfriend, mum, or other loved one. Really, thus a person is released from negative emotions. Besides, during conversations we hear opinion of other person, often it leads to understanding of the reasons of an event. Thus, the stress gradually disappears, and self-trust replaces it.

It is possible to tell everything to your pet or a toy. And no matter that they cannot advise you anything, your negative emotions will be stated.

If you have nothing to share your thoughts with, it is possible to talk to yourself, having settled down in front of the mirror comfortably. After such conversation relief will necessarily come.

Well and if the variant with conversations in front of the mirror is not pleasant to you, it is possible to write a letter. You can start it with the words «Hi, my dear», and further tell about all events, emotions and experiences. Probably, such way will help to understand a problem quickly and see its reason and decision, after all we build written speech more logically and it is shorter, than oral.

2. Give vent to tears. Tears really allow getting rid of negative emotions. It is one of the most effective ways which can be used to win stress. It is possible to cry under a shower. Water possesses calming and weakening effect. Tears and all problems will flow away together with water streams, and confidence, a peace of mind and calmness will come instead.

3. Present yourself a holiday. Or simply make a gift. Nothing helps cheering up, as a gift. It is possible to buy a thing of which you’ve been dreaming for a long time, maybe a new jacket, a book, good coffee or pleasant knickknack. The main thing – it should bring you pleasure. Also a sensation of a holiday perfectly cheers you up. Arrange a holiday for yourself!

Preventive measures To master stress, it is possible to drink some mugs of tea in day. The matter is that active components of black tea possess ability to lower level of stress hormone in an organism. Those people who regularly drink tea, manage stress more successfully, than those who prefer other drinks. So tea breaks during a working day are very useful.

Yoga helps raising your ability to handle stress. Yoga will allow you learning to relax, and also improve concentration.

Do not forget about dialogue with an opposite sex. About close dialogue. It considerably raises level of stability to influence of stresses. And it is a question not only of sex, but also about kisses. Kiss more often, it is not only pleasant, but also useful.

Try to sleep not less than eight hours a day, as it is necessary for organism to gain strength before a new day and restore those forces which it spent during a previous day. It happens better and faster during a dream.

Now you know how to manage your stress. Remember – life is fine! And if it is not, make it fine. Everything is in your hands! Be a mistress of your life!

Do you want to underline your beauty, fascinate associates, draw general attention and drive your lover crazy? You can do it by means of your favourite open dress with cut on a back or without shoulder-straps. And do not think about hiding a bra. With invisible bra you can wear your favourite clothes and underline all advantages of your figure, as easy as shelling pears. Besides, it is the easiest, safest and most convenient way to increase bust.

Such bra is absolutely imperceptible, has no shoulder straps, so you can put on a dress or a jacket with an open back, any summer top. Now decollete dresses, corsets and transparent blouses become the most habitual clothes for you, you know, carrying them, you can underline attractive figure. This invention of Japanese scientists answers many female inquiries, helps them looking relaxed and confident.

Structure

An invisible bra is made of silicone and consists of two cups which are connected between themselves through a transparent fastener. Inside a bra contains special glued substance, which has been checked up in laboratory and is absolutely harmless to skin. Thanks to it you can use a bra repeatedly.

Sizes

An invisible bra is made in three sizes: A (0), B (1), C (2).

Instruction

Put cups to breast and, placing cups closer or farer, create new attractive forms. In the end of a day you will need to remove cups accurately from breast, separating them from top to down, and wipe with warm water. Manufacturers are assured that an invisible bra is so soft and natural that, adjoining to your body, it becomes its integral part.

DO NOT USE humidifying creams, spirits, powders or other skin care means before use of a silicone bra, as it can reduce efficiency.

1. CLEAR YOUR SKIN: It is the most important step. Clear breast breast by means of soap and warm water. Dry it up with a soft towel. Thereby you prolong the period of effective work of a product.

2. PLACE BOTH CUPS SYMMETRICALLY: Stand in front of the mirror. Take a cup’s sides using both hands and place it on breast under desirable corner and press tightly. Repeat given operation also with the second cup.

3. CLASP LOCK: For several seconds press both hands on already placed cups tightly. Clasp the lock. Now you are ready to enjoy full freedom and comfort of your silicone bra.

4. EFFECT IS ACHIEVED? NOW YOU CAN UNDRESS …

Do not hurry up. Open the lock and separate a cup from top to down accurately. Repeat operation with the second cup. If there are sticky rests after cup removal on your body, just wipe skin with a soft fabric.

Do not also forget that as well as any thing, an invisible bra demands care. Clearing after each use has big value, as it promotes prolongation of use term.

It is not recommended

If you have damage of skin surface and solar burns, pigmented skin or propensities to the given disease, it is not recommended to use such wonderful invention. Besides, you carry it for no longer than six hours.

Small female cunning

Note another small secret: to achieve the best result, you can wear an invisible bra under a bigger corner, than a corner of your own breast is. To create the necessary corner, place cups further from each other, so that the lock has been closed more reliably. It will compress breast to create that definitive corner you search.

Advantages of an invisible bra:

it is ideally suited for a dress with an open back;

it will make you irresistible both in an evening dress, wedding dress, and casual clothes;

it improves breast shape;

it has no shoulder-strips that fall down and are visible;

it has no stones that can jump out and rub skin;

And, the most important thing, - it gives you self-trust.

There are aged ladies, looking 10-15 years younger. But there’s a reverse phenomenon too: young women looking older than they are

1. Early gray hair You can find gray hairs in your splendid chevelure even being 17-25 y.o. Stresses, diets, chronic diseases - they all lead to early gray hair.

2. Untended hands What can be worse than dry, limp and chapped skin of hands? In winter time this topic is of current importance. What shall you do? Wash dishes and floors in special gloves or apply protective cream. During a day apply your favorite moisturizing cream.

You can also remove pigmentation using traditional recipes: mix 1 tea spoon onion juice with 2 tea spoons kombucha extract and apply on hands.

3. Limp neck Another traitor is neck! Skin of neck is very thin, that’s why it is especially subjected to premature ageing. Moisture and nourish skin of neck very carefully, like you do with your face. Important moment: take care of your bearing - droop will affect your neck negatively.

4. Your grandmother’s perfume Real perfume experts will probably argue, but there’re perfumes, associating with old ladies.

So, if you feel older in a new perfume, and this cause psychological discomfort - it’s better refusing from it.

6. Dress too old for your age Imagine a young girl in a skirt in midi lengths, of course, she will look more serious and??¦ older!

Many girls feel uncomfortable with bright manicure, they say it makes them older.

8. Wrinkles Wrinkles are the most evident old age attribute. Struggle with skin ageing is executed at full speed: cosmetic companies invent new items very often. Thus, just recently American scientists developed “Amatokin“, activating human stem cells, and that’s why it can smooth out even deepest wrinkles.

The better you treat your skin in young age, the better it will look in mature age.

9. Limp body It is considered that so-called “orange peel” is peculiar only to mature women. However this statement is mistaken, as even young slim girls can have cellulite.

Lighthearted dresses are a leading trend of this summer, and you probably are interested in best accessories for them. Which colors you would like to combine? How about the blacks and whites? Use you own sense of style and do not forget about main summer 2008 trends.

This season, 4 types of accessories are evident. No doubt, they surface season after season but the way they are worn make all the difference.

Large bracelets

With the season’s simple yet chic clothing, all you might need to complete your outfit is 1 stunning bracelet, or an armful of bangles.

Wear a cuff bracelet with your little black dress, or your brightly colored spring dress.

Chanel offers models that are dripped with jewels. They wore cuff bracelets on bare arms, anklets over their pants and loads of necklaces. At Versace, the look was more minimalist with a simple dress accessorized with just a single cuff bracelet worn on the wrist.

At Oscar De La Renta, the outfits were ethnic and 2 wooden bangles were worn on one arm to complete that ethnic look

Large Drop Earrings

The models at the Chanel Spring and Summer show wore large drop earrings encrusted with white crystals. The look was surprisingly sophisticated. Those stunning earrings look perfect with skirt suits as well as with evening gowns.

Layered necklaces

Look for layered and luxe necklaces. And if your garment does not have an open neckine, then find a brooch decorated with pearls and /or stones to accessories your look.

Givenchy and Chanel embraced that layered necklace look, but with silver necklaces instead of beaded ones. Chanel had huge linked silver necklaces worn in a mass of layers to turn heads while Givenchy went religious by adding silver crosses to the necklaces.

Tuxedo dressing

A trend pushed along by Kate Moss, the tuxedo trend is hotting up for Spring / Summer 2008. Able to transcend the boundaries between casual and evening-wear, the dinner jacket in particular is a staple of 2008.

Italians were named one of the most temperamental and sexual nations in the world at all times. What’s the secret of their passion? If you think that it is in champagne or oysters, you are mistaken!

The interrogation spent in Italy, has shown that salami and cheese are general afrodisiacs for inhabitants of this country. 25 % and 21 % of interrogated accordingly named these culinary products.

Rissoto with saffron and steamed vegetables also increase libido of Italians. 12 % of respondents voted for these dishes.

However, very few Italians voted for such known afrodisiacs as oysters. Italians also do not pay much attention to the fact that champagne is capable to increase sexual desire.

A new fashionable season came to us with this summer. Boutiques are replenished with spring-and-summer collections, womanly and romantic, glamour and strict. And all of us know, how much we desire new things to blossom during warm days. To understand tendencies of a new season and variety of styles, we offer you photos from fashion shows, illustrating latest trends. Let’s reflect over skirts that will enter in our wardrobe best of all.

Here are their basic features:

1. Waist-line skirt

It is an indispensable attribute of today’s fashion. Bell-bottomed skirts passed into oblivion and forced us tightening belts.

Besides, in a new season a belt became an indispensable ally of both evening dresses and casual dresses, and even skirts with a shirt are tightened by belts, parading waist. It is necessary to mean that a narrow skirt with a short waist – clothes for a harmonous figure, but if a skirt has loose cut, it can hide some defects of a figure. For example – to distract attention from flat buttocks. A high waistline extends feet visually, and tightened thong adds feminity to unduly thin figure.

ANNA SUI, A. McQueen, GUCCI collections

2. Rita Hayworth

The image of this Hollywood star of the last century inspired many designers preparing for a new season’s. An extended silhouette, smooth lines outlining a figure flatterly, slender waist. All this creates an image of a film star – seductive and simultaneously constrained, – and adds retrocharm in modern things.

It suits figures, not too harmonous, smoothing convex stomach or grown plump hips slightly. Choose womanly, graceful footwear to such image, with a heel or small platform, as in forties.

BOTTEGA VENETTA, Donna Karan, Badgley Mischka collections

3. Maxiskirt

This is fine invention of mankind!

After all, a long skirt has lots of advantages: such skirt gives sensation of freedom, and in a combination to footwear on a flat sole – ease and comfort. It hides hips and feet far from a desirable ideal, and with correctly picked up top levels superfluous centimetres on a waist.

However, it does not suit owners of low height, a tiny figure seems overloaded in loose attires.

In a new season maxiskirts are sewed from light streaming fabrics and combined to sandals on a flat sole.

D&G, Salvatore Ferragamo, Gianfranco Ferrе collections

4. Volume

Pleated skirts and skirts with a cascade of frills are still actual in a new season. However, a skirt-tulip and a skirt-cylinder, also do not give ground. Volume skirts are good in a combination with laconic fitting top, high-heel peeps or sharp-nosed pumps.

Volume created by these models can increase proportions of hips visually, having balanced excessively wide shoulders.

RODARTE, Luella, Giles collections